RED FLAG #10: When you go on a date with him he pays for everything in cash.
In our electronic society, most people no longer carry around cash, so if your new boyfriend always pays in cash beware especially if any of the signs listed below also apply to your situation.
RED FLAG #9: He only has time to be with you during a four-hour window after he gets off work.
He'll call your dad or your grandma without any hesitation. If one of them is having a bad day, he suggests you go spend time with her or invite her to join the two of you for dinner. Sometimes when something frustrates you, you just need to go over it again and again.
It just makes sense that you'd go to his nephew's birthday party, even if he's not there. If he hasn't heard someone's name in a while, he asks how she's doing. He doesn't get annoyed at this, and he dismisses your apologies. He doesn't depend on you to be in charge of everything, and he remembers that you said you wanted to go to that new restaurant or museum exhibit.20. If you ask him to go to an event that's important to you, he's not afraid to step out of the office to accompany you.
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