Luckily for you, there are plenty of educational materials available for purchase.
There are books for god-fearing couples on creating lasting connections, ensuring passionate communication and the key to a happy marriage.
This book asks questions about chore expectations, future children, fears, beliefs about baptism and communion, pet peeves and more. In fact, as premarital counseling our pastor gave us a long questionnaire to fill out separately and then come together and share our answers.
We had already answered most of the questions thanks to this book so there were no surprises.
Instead of preaching, the author shares poignant stories and practical examples with the reader, bringing the moral closer.